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**I have no respect for your culture.** I have no respect for the one I was
born into either. In general I dont respect any culture. I have no respect for
white culture, black culture, jewish culture... No respect for religion or
nationality.

### Why?!

Culture is the enbodiment and enforcement of social norms. These norms dictate
everything from how you dress to even the slightest nuance in how you act.
Sometimes you get to consent to it (subcultures) while other times they rape
you with it without the slightest care in the world if you like it or not.  
  
**The social norms of a culture couldnt be more far removed from actual
morals:**  
The culture calls for eye contact and you dont make any? You are an asshole.
Didnt say enough _thank you's_? You are an asshole. Said too many? Your overly
polite and moved down a rank or four on the social totem pole. You took
advange of someone and fucked them over? Its perfectly ok as long as you
followed social norms while you did it.  
  
These are some strange rules. Where is the manual so I can keep up? There is
no manual. There never will be manual. Everytime you ask someone what the
rules are two things happen: they dont tell you and you gain another asshole
point. So much for _there is no harm in asking_. People who say that tend to
be the meanest when you ask them things. How do people know the rules if they
never tell? I have no fucking clue. The little I do know is from the fuck
around and find out method.

### Disability and neurdivergents

All the rules are set in stone. This is why culture and disability always
clashes. Culture hates making exceptions even when its psychically impossible
for someone to follow it. Another example would be if your brain processes
information differently, like if your brain processes information more
logically or mathematically instead of socially. In that case social norms
wouldnt be possible to follow since you werent born already knowing them and
no one is going to tell you. They hate those kinds of people the most. People
who visibly cant follow them at least have a slim chance of compromoise.
People who dont visibly have any signs of not being able to follow social
norms like neurdivergents on the other hand have zero chance of even the
slightest compromoise. **For neurdivergents like myself to have freedom and
equality culture must be destroyed.**  
  
As a neurdivergent since I am doomed to gain a lot of asshole points from the
strange social norm rules I should be entitled to be a asshole in that
reguard. Its my accessibly. If you are trying to tell me something with social
hints instead of words I shouldnt be blamed for not understanding what you
were saying to me. Just to get back at you for discriminating against me I
been working on building up to breaking even the social norms I do know. No
more tips, please and thank yous... or any of that shit in public. I been
cutting off people on the road and not giving a single fuck about being polite
cutting through people at rock concerts to get to the front. No sorry
bullshit, just a "move or less..." look on my face, all as a fuck you for what
you have done. If I didnt consent to social norms and society I shouldnt be
expected to play nice. Maybe I would be more polite if everyone didnt use a
abliest system like culture. I hate the "things are the way they are"
arguments because things are the way they are because **you** stuppa mother
fuckers support all that bullshit. **Culture is sysmatically against people
with disabilities and neurdivergents.**

### _My culture is good though_

No its not, **fuck your culture!** I dont care about your religion or history.
All cultures actively enforce ablism through set in stone social norms. All
cultures have social practies that hate making exceptions for disabilities.
Yours is not any different. It might make a compromoise or two for some
psychically disabilities but what about us neurdivergents? **Neurdivergents
born under your culture suffer because you uphold its practices.** If you care
about your people ditch your culture. Culture != people. You clearly care more
about a few vague yet harsh practies than you care about your people.

### GO FUCK YOURSELF